It was narrated that Jaabir ibn
Keeping one's virginity intact gives an insight into how chaste a lady is, even though it has been proven beyond reasonable doubts that hymens can be broken without having sexual relation
1. The Prophet (Peace be upon him said): “Women may be married for four things: their wealth, their lineage,
2. It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: It was said to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings
“Let one of you acquire a thankful heart, a tongue that remembers Allaah and a believing wife who will help him with regard to the Hereafter.” — Narrated and classed as hasan by al-Tirmidhi
Yes, as a man, one might not be able to stop the thoughts that coming with knowing that one's spouse wasn't married a virgin,
-Sura An-Nur, Ayah 23