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This morning I read something I wrote more than 20 years ago.
I felt a little bit shocked.
What I read was – for the first time in years -- the Afterword of my book Betrayal Trauma: The Logic of Forgetting Childhood Abuse which was published in 1996. It was my first book.
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Betrayal Trauma was published in 1996. Flash forward to 2019. We have #MeToo and that’s huge. But I wonder: are victims of childhood sexual abuse freer to speak the truth of their experience? Are scholars of childhood sexual abuse freer from attack and ostracism?
In 2019 some of what I know: Adult sexual victimization is inextricably linked to how children are treated & what children learn. Sexual violence thrives in secrecy. We enable sexual violence of adults and children by discrediting those who speak about childhood abuse.
In 2019 some of what I believe: The time will come when our society comprehends the extent of childhood sexual abuse – both its frequency and its destructive power. The sooner we get there the fewer lives devastated.
In 2019 I transform my words from 1996: When people who dare to speak about childhood sexual abuse are supported by those whom they have relied on and trusted, society will begin to dismantle sexual violence.