ACEs is not strengths based. It’s not trauma-informed. It’s not evidence based. It’s not ethical.
Don’t ever let it into your practice.
First of all, read this blog I wrote:
victimfocus.wordpress.com/2019/03/15/why…
What if a divorce impacted you more than anything else?
If we can predict shitty outcomes for everyone with a high ACEs score you may as well all quit your jobs now and go home if it’s so predictable.
We are already telling people that their ACEs score basically means they’re doomed. I’m totally uninterested in people tweeting back that we don’t do this when I’ve spoken directly with abused women who have been told this in 2020
Let that shit sink right in.
I spent time explaining why that was a terrible idea and they didn’t go ahead thank fuck.
How would they all feel to be told their ACEs score is so high they are unlikely to have any career, any success, poor health, poor mental health and be poor parents?
My ACEs score is 8. What does that mean? I can’t be a mum? I’m a shit mum? I’m a dangerous, broken, vulnerable mum?
Don’t we believe all children (humans) have potential and should not be defined by what someone else did to them?
Children and adults are not their traumas