Her: "So what do you do?"
Him: Well I'm applying to med school. If I make it, I'll spend the vast majority of my time studying for the next 4 years. You and I will be able to go on (cheap) dates very occasionally, but even then I'll feel guilty about not studying.
Her: "Oh no I mean how do you order? The menu here is confusing."
Hug your partner tonight and tell them how much you appreciate what they have done for you.