hoo boy. /1
On the surface, it’s “well women are such mercurial creatures that it’s impossible to KNOW and if they had some standard, this wouldn’t be a problem.” /3
As in: “I did X, Y and Z in this order, therefor you owe me sex now.” /5
Follow this routine and at the end, collect their panties off the floor. /6
Which is something straight dudes figure out right quick when it’s someone THEY’RE not into doing it. /8
A person who’s socially well-calibrated and knows how to read an individual is going to be able to “get away with” more. /10
My partner rubbing my chest is a very different thing from a stranger doing exactly that. Even a cute stranger. /11
You’re gonna have to learn to watch for those. Preferably BEFORE you hit the latter. /13
But also maybe slow your roll. /14
Some folks can do it instinctively, some folks use their words. Either way: put in the effort and LEARN and be amazed at how much better you do. /fin