Do you ask marginalized people what they need or just assume empathy is the answer?
You shouldn’t have to empathize with a person to know they deserve rights & privileges.
Using these “I” statements is centering you. That’s the worst kind of ally/advocate
Why is my humanity or existence based on if you love me, or of I live differently or any emotion you as a person in power need to have to see me?
I deserve because im human.
Hell most don’t even want to be around the majority.
We just want what we deserve because we exist. Because we deserve equity and equality despite how you feel.