Understand that decent people — including decent white men — think there's more to the world than that.
That would rightly be considered insane.
A black man who knew nothing about how white people experience the world would hit a social brick wall very quickly. Maybe even get arrested or shot by police.
Dudebros like @McNeilJaden don't want to do that in part because they *like* the fact that they only have to think about themselves.
You only have to think about yourself. The world works best when the people who are ahead don't have to pull the people behind. Be they the poor, discriminated minorities etc.