Thread by @rachelsrubin1

A thread: As Men’s Health Urologists we focus on making libidos higher, erections harder, straighter and last long enough for satisfaction. But if we as a #sexmed society TRULY care about #goodsex and #pleasure then we must provide REAL #sexed for our men all ages. @somedocs

for those patients that have or want to have sex with women:

1) Ask them if their partner can have an orgasm. Then ask them how.

2) TEACH them that <17% of women can even HAVE orgasm with penetration.

They often look at you shock.

3) Don’t assume they know where the clitoris is. Show them a diagram. Same anatomy as a 🍆

4) Normalize #vibrators. >50% of women have them. They work. Encourage their use during intimate time.

(Remember: it doesn’t matter who is holding the joystick as long as there is joy)

5) Don’t lose sight of the fact that the end goal of #sex is #PLEASURE. While #penetration is nice for some, intimacy and pleasure are great for everybody. Make sure a couple is maximizing this time together while you treat them.

6) Too many of my male patients with #erectiledysfunction and #peyronies report NO intimacy time with their partner. They are wasting time, intimacy and really good #orgasms with their partners.

#sexmed