So that's why, from this biologist, the single characteristic that links every organism that reproduces sexually via differently-sized gametes is the *only* characteristic that can be deemed "sex".
So, in a healthy person, gametic sex is associated with a specific gonad type, which causes development of specific reproductive anatomies and so on.
I do not agree with this cluster concept of sex but, in my academic world, disagreement is allowed :)
For the majority of people, that is accurate. The markers are good.
So the language of the debate changes depending on who you are talking to. We are all fundamentally asserting the same premise though :)