He is in a new one with a principal I trust and like. But both of us have to unlearn some serious preemptive angst. It is exhausting. Nothing drains me more.
Two principals demoted
Two deans demoted
One teacher suspended and fired
One teacher demoted
One teacher put on a performance plan
One aide fired
He has also had good administrators and teachers but, man, we’ve drawn some ungreat cards.
The good ones change lives. They truly change lives. They lift children above hardship and struggle.
The not great ones, boy, they can do harm though. Especially to already vulnerable kids.
Last night, I fell asleep at four o’ clock. Woke up for an hour. Slept for another nine.
It. Is. Exhausting.
She ain’t wrong. My son got physically attacked 5 times in his first 5 weeks of kindergarten. Took threatening to go to the district to solve.
This year will be better.
Standing down though - disarming as a fiercely protective parent programmed to need to defend and protect - that shit is hard. Hard. Hard. Hard.
When a parent has been taught they need to be hypervigilant, it is damn hard for them to stand down.
I’m tired.