Be honest, at least with yourselves.
But let’s all be honest: the ultra sensitively here is because of who @IlhanMN is and what she represents - a Muslim woman who is critical of Israel.
If you dislike/mistrust her for
-her views on Israel-Palestine
-her support for BDS
-the fact that she’s Muslim
OWN IT.
And then you can stop parsing her every word to find proof o what you already believe is true.