Scenario 1: You've been friends with someone forever. Or at least it feels like it because oh my gosh are they fantastic. They get you. You text almost constantly
Time goes by and everyday texting has turned into every week... or month
But when they DO answer, it's all smiles and laughs. All the good feelings come rushing back
Nothing appears "wrong" - So what gives?
Later, you text. It's delivered. But after a day, no response. A week later they answer with an apology for being busy.
But within a few days, it happens again. Messages are delivered. But no responses are given. This time the apology comes months later
You didn't say anything horrible. So, what happened?
We think about "They're not that into you" as a relationship phrase. Something you say to your friend when their crush isn't answering them.
Truth is that it's in friendships, too. Sometimes people just don't support you in a way that you wish they would.
But there are also times when the person on the other end just doesn't want to be close friends. And that's a hard pill to swallow
It's a form of rejection and it hurts
When someone wants to make time for you. They will. And that is why it's so important to understand your value.
While you're busy wondering why so-and-so isn't messaging you back. Other people are trying to get your attention
Sadly, no. No one owes us any time. Friendship is a choice. Friendship is a commitment and it takes two people CHOOSING to be friends
And that's the most difficult part: you have to choose to be grateful when it hurts the most.
But in the end, you have to be able to look in the mirror and be your own friend.
If in the end, they don't want to be your friend. That's their loss more than yours.
Sometimes they might answer your tweets. They might answer your texts. Sometimes they might not answer anything. Or answer when they want.
Let them. Don't let it bring you down
If someone isn't giving you the attention you wish they would. Instead of focusing on that, remember how many people there are in the world
A stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet
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