Just a short thread -- random thought -- about female sexual behavior. @RationalMale has written at length about solipsism as fundamental to female psychology. Guys often ask, "Why do women always take everything so personally?" The correct word is subjective. #RedPill
@RationalMale "Why can't a woman be more like a man?" Professor Higgins asks, in "My Fair Lady." Oh, perish the thought, Professor! No one should ever wish such a horrible thing! A mannish woman lacks the nurturing qualities which make women so desirable, and such a woman loves men less.
@RationalMale My point is that, however much men might lament women's (apparent) emotionalism, we would not love them so much if they were more rational and "objective" in their behavior. What is called "femininity" is a package deal. You must take the bad with the good. C'est l'amour!
@RationalMale And what prompted me to compose this thread was my observation that women explain their romantic choices by hindsight rationalization. However ugly or worthless her chosen partner might be, a woman always has an elaborate system of defense mechanisms to justify her choice.
@RationalMale Of course, "love is blind," as they say, but anyone who has spent decades observing female sexual behavior must be struck by this: Highly desirable women, ones we might suppose would have their pick of men, will often choose so badly as to justify the adjective "catastrophic."
@RationalMale "Hypergamy doesn't care," as @RationalMale so often says, but pay attention and you'll see that many of the most desirable women often "marry down." I have seen women literally ruin their lives for bad men, and any wise parent would have warned them against their choices.
@RationalMale When we see women engage in dating/sexual/romantic behavior that is, objectively, self-destructive, we must ask, "Why?" And if you will (gently) navigate a woman through a discussion of her romantic choices, you'll encounter a lot of rationalization -- psychological defenses.
@RationalMale "What were you thinking? Why did you marry that creep?" She will not admit the truth -- that she is a poor judge of character -- because every woman vainly imagines herself a connoisseur of male quality. Her romantic judgment is never to be questioned, certainly not by a man!
@RationalMale And this is just it: A WOMAN WILL NEVER LISTEN TO A MAN'S OPINION ABOUT SEX AND LOVE! She is profoundly subjective (solipsistic, as @RationalMale says) and thus cannot conceive that a man could be disinterested enough to offer wise and objective advice on romance. Selah.
@RationalMale So I'm like @DrPhil sitting here listening to women bitch and gripe about the (predictably bad) results of lousy decision-making in terms of their sexual choices. "What were you thinking?" And the answer is always: She was not THINKING at all. She was FEELING. Oops. 🤷♂️
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