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Another dude who felt entitled to a girl’s attention killed her and nine others and men are still sitting around telling us about their oppression because girls and women say no and don’t want them.
Do y’all know how hard it is for women to say “no” to men? Do you know all the things that go through our heads when we think about how we react to men who feel entitled to our attention, time, or even just a response to them?
We put up with more than you can ever imagine out of fear or even just for “ease” because we just don’t want to make a scene or impact our jobs or get hurt or DIE.
Men - you are not entitled to our bodies. You are not entitled to our attention. You are not entitled to even a response to you saying “hello.”

You don’t deserve it.
And dudes, please stop replying like this. These are men. Stop acting like they aren’t. Instead of distancing yourself from these dudes - take it up with them. Don’t tell us they’re not “real men.” That’s just a copout.
This is on men. This is rape culture. This is toxic masculinity and toxic misogyny. This is your fault. Fix. Your. Shit. Stop telling women it’s “those other guys not the real men.” You’d be shock to know how many of the “real men” are shit too.
And guess what? This is MORE than just Dimitrios Pagourtzis or incels or Jordan Peterson or and his acolytes ...this is just men in general. Even the ones who claim to be on our side.
And if you want to know what happens when a women tells men they are not entitled to their attention or bodies...look no further than my mentions. Notice how *I* need to courteous and kind and I’m the bitter one:
Oh and look! Here are the men that agree with me up until a certain point! Notice how it’s always *me* going too far. I let myself down!
Sometimes we cry. We’ll talk to our girlfriends about it. We may get mad and call him an asshole. On the whole, we don’t kill them for it. Also, Jesus fucking Christ WHY ARE MEN.

If you first reaction is to tell me that women do this too, you’re 100% part of the problem.
Here’s the thing dudes: if we ignore you, it’s bad. If we’re nice and respond, it means we MUST want you and then you feel you’re entitled to more of our time and it’s also bad. It’s really all bad. We ignore you and we’re bitches. We say hello back and we we’re “flirting.”
Do you know how many times I’ve politely told dudes no & they continued to follow me around? Once a dude said it was okay I had a boyfriend b/c I probably don’t like him much because I was still talking to him (he was following me). One dude tried to kiss me after I told him no
So y’all can stfu about me being polite to men. WE DON’T HAVE THE LUXURY TO KNOW WHICH DUDES MIGHT HURT US.
I am going to screenshot all the men’s comments to this thread telling me I shouldn’t be rude to men, btw. I’ll probably miss some but I want everyone to know what happens when women call men on their shit.
Patriarchy steeped in patriarchy steeped in mansplaining
Let’s also not forget that it’s the mother of one of the victims who is telling us what happened to her daughter and notice the reaction of men who are insisting “there’s more to the story.”

We’re already programmed not to listen to women.
Gonna say one more thing - part of the problem with a lot of this shit is the number of women agreeing saying this is a problem vs. the number of men owning up to it & doing something about it. Ever notice who mostly replies to shit dudes in my threads? Women.
I’m not saying that men don’t do this - they do and those men are awesome but they aren’t even close to the majority and THAT IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM.
Women are constantly doing the work & we’re fucking tired. We talk about this over & over & yet men still can’t STFU and listen. My thread is full of men telling me it’s rude to not respond to men or we think “all men want to hurt us” or we’re bitter cunts. I’m calling y’all out.
Hey dudes if you feel the urge to say “not all men” in my thread, stop, then go find one of the dudes being trash in my mentions and call them out.

Do this every time you feel the need to reply to a woman with “not all men.”

It’s the least you can fucking do to not be trash.
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