I’m going to rustle up some food to feed my perpetually hungry teenager and then when that is done I’ll try and explain why.
Stay tuned.
The problem is not whether or not the racists are the majority. It’s more subtle.
Jews are finding that the spaces in which we can exist as the people we really are, are contracting at an alarming rate.
And we find that those who were -on paper- our allies are not.
Some of those bystanders simply can’t parse the antisemitism, partly because the racists have blown such a dense fog of denial around it. And largely because Jews have pretty much existed under the radar.
All people think of is the Holocaust. And Shylock.
So that chunk of bystanders is blind.
They might at some level recognize a problem but it simply doesn’t have any bite in the “what’s in it for me” stakes.
And the final group of bystanders:
And these groups of bystanders make up at least 30-40% of the electorate, and in reality probably much much more than that.
Back to the pogrom. As Jews we now have to change how we relate...
We remove ourselves from scenarios on a regular basis. We distance ourselves from those who we thought had our backs and shared common values. This means we lose relationships with friends and family members.
The famous author, the musician, the actor..
So we remove ourselves but by bit from those cultural and political spheres.
Of course, we don’t really remove ourselves - no, we are removed by others
To our new Pale of Settlement
Our lives as Jews are contracting.
Though of course their rhetoric has physical consequences. I remind you of the day this year when @MrsNuddering and I arrived at our synagogue to be greeted by..
So yes, the physical threat is there - it always has been as @CST_UK can attest - but I personally don’t talk about leaving....
No, when I talk about leaving it is simply because I deserve better than this. I and my dear wife and beloved son deserve a life that isn’t contracting.
As you will know Damian, the immigrant life story is a long and hard one.But it is meaningful and dignified because it promises redemption. It promises expansion
And that’s how it has broadly worked out for around 120 years in the case of my family.
But now - I’m not so sure anymore. I’m not utterly convinced either way tbh, but that’s an extraordinary..
The legend that is @DavidHirsh sums up a lot of this much more coherently and succinctly in his concept of the “community of the good”.
Jews are now on the outside of that virtuous circle here.
But other circles exist.
We have choices.
Hard ones...
Sorry, that was a long -if only partial- explanation
But whatever else, I and many others will always remember those like you Damian who stand tall. You are the real community of the good and we love you dearly for it.
Right, enough from me.
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