Thread by @RespectIsVital

I have something to share.

I was a victim of domestic & sexual abuse by a former partner over a period of 3 years.

Unfortunately, the Police have investigated and are unable to charge them despite medical records & witness statements

It leaves a hollow feeling if I'm honest.

2/ It took me a long time to face up to it because if the stigma.

I'm sharing my story in the hope that men who've been Domestic Abuse victims know that it's ok to speak up.

It's NOT an embarrassment, it's NOT your fault.

NEVER be afraid to talk about it.

You will be heard

3/ I can honestly say, although my abuser seems to have gotten away with it, it made such a difference in reporting it.

A weight was lifted and the stigma I thought it would bring, didn't happen.

Don't have to go to the Police if you aren't comfortable, but do talk to someone.

4/ The hardest step will be convincing yourself you're not to blame.

It will take time, but I promise that you'll feel relieved.

Abuse is abuse. You're gender doesn't matter.

Don't suffer in silence.

You deserve to be heard.

YOU DO MATTER.

Alex ♥️

5/ A quick addendum.

This isn't about me.

It's for all the men out there who are suffering in silence.

Society needs to do more to let them know that they matter.

That they'll be listened to & supported.

That it's not shameful & it's not their fault.

#AbuseHasNoGender