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#BreakingBarriers starts now..... Life Patterns @dayus4heaven

1. What we call chaos is just patterns we haven’t recognized. What we call random is just patterns we can’t decipher.” ~Chuck Palahniuk
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2. Life has a funny way of teaching us lessons. When there is something you need to learn, something that you need to work on, the same situation will continue to repeat itself until you either learn your lesson or find a healthy way of dealing with that particular issue.

3. I hear people say: Why do I keep going through the same things in relationships? I’m with different people, but things always end up being the same, or they act just like someone who I used to know.
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4. Some of these people give up, some get stuck in a vicious cycle of their own making, and others don’t even realize that they are basically chasing their tail, repeating the same situation over and over. #BreakingBarriers

5. A good question to ask is: Am I reliving the same scene, over and over again? What’s my part in that?
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7. It might not be in relationships, but in different situations, like at work for example, when the same issue comes up disguised. If you work with the public it could be the same issue with different customers, until you find a way to deal with it or until you learn the lesson.

8. For a while it will seem like coincidences playing out, but over time the pattern of your lesson will come up. This is the lesson you need to learn at this time.
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It could be a lesson in humility, or a lesson in gratitude, or maybe you may need to learn empathy to see things from the other person’s point of view.

Instead of reacting all the time, every time something challenging comes up it could be an opportunity to learn.

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One lesson I’ve needed to learn recently can be summarized with a Shakespeare quote:

“To thine own self be true.”

I’m realizing that, no matter what other people say, do, or think about us, it is our opinions of ourselves that really matter. #BreakingBarriers

11. And, when making decisions, sometimes it is good to question our own intentions. Think: What am I doing here? Or what am I up to?
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Ultimately the question I’ve needed to ask myself is: Am I being completely honest with myself? What is the particular reason why I’m scared of change? #BreakingBarriers

13. learned that not making a decision is in itself a decision—and that my fear of change was actually a fear of failure. That was when I noticed the pattern of things breaking, or circumstances changing, forcing me to deal with my inability to make decisions.
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14. Find your pattern. Find your lesson.

A good way of recognizing patterns in your life is by listening to your feelings, your intuition #BreakingBarriers

15. . I’ve found that when I am involved in a pattern, my emotions run a bit stronger, kind of like a warning from my subconscious mind to pay attention to what’s happening.

More often than not, I recognize the pattern when the situation has ended, or changed. #BreakingBarriers

16. Hindsight is 20/20 in this way. It can be difficult to recognize a pattern while it’s playing out. So, usually we realize what happened afterward. And that is okay.

In turn, life will continue to send us ways to overcome our patterns and learn our individual lessons.

17. The key is to be alert. When you’re open to recognizing a pattern, you can change it by learning the lesson, and in doing so, change your life. #BreakingBarriers

18. Stop fighting yourself over those patterns, recognize them, take your time to see how you can respond unconventionally and intentionally do it afraid. #BreakingBarriers

19. If you’re faced with patterns of fear, worry and anger, you might want to consider meditation, confession on self affirmation, taking little actions and believing in yourself. #BreakingBarriers

20. Lastly, you need to be self aware of things happening to you and ensure your subconscious is feed with positivity. #BreakingBarriers

21. It’s been a long day for me here, had few of delays, issues and disappointment but I still choose to remain positive about life. You need to drive your mind and life to act positively. #BreakingBarriers

22. Keep working on yourself. Don’t get tired. Intentionally focus on your journey and progress. Little here and there, make sure you’re not on the same spot. #BreakingBarriers

23. Don’t be distracted, you will see a lot in life but remain on your lane and trust your own struggles. Never choose others over yourself. Don’t chase after people’s validation at the detriment of your life. #BreakingBarriers

24. Let go the past and stop living there. Don’t get attached to your past that you miss impacts of the present and sight of the future. #BreakingBarriers

Keep #BreakingBarriers ❤️🙏

Remember with God it’s people like us that succeed in life.

To your success,
Adedayo Olabamiji

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