I've talked to some "GC feminists" who genuinely seem to seek a compromise, to only moderately oppress trans people for their own convenience and safety from imagined threats
but the TERF endgame is extermination. there's no way around that.
but they would NEVER say such nasty things about us!
they don't need to. they have nothing to gain by attacking us directly
"there's a MAN in the ladies' room" causes more immediate, visceral outrage than "we are being forced out of public life"