realtalk: I, a trans lesbian, have turned down several trans women because I perceived them as being masculine in ways that I found unappealing. that's not transphobic. that's what an ACTUAL "personal preference" looks like
(and I didn't say that was why, because that'd be rude)
(and I didn't say that was why, because that'd be rude)
heck, once I've spent more time in the community, I fully expect to end up turning down some cis lesbians for the same reason. I love butches but not all of them are my type, y'know?
(also if you're reading this and I've turned you down in the past, don't assume that was why, I turn people down for all kinds of reasons)
and I've never rejected a girl for having a dick, because I'm into that, but if it's not your thing that's totally understandable. but not all of us have dicks! and if you're sufficiently attracted to a person you might find it doesn't actually matter what's between their legs
(if you count swiping left on tinder this has already happened MANY times, there are so many amazing queer ladies in seattle but also a lot of boring seahawks fans with no fashion sense)
