You can change circumstances, you can change names, and then again the same thing will become apparent with a new face.
All that you can do is to go beyond them.
A religious man lives without choosing. No morality needed. Good is equally acceptable as bad.
When he is healthy, he is at ease with his health. He is not conscious of it. He moves easily between these polar opposites without any choice
Don’t try to be something, otherwise, you will become quite the contrary. Don't choose.
Whatsoever happens, let it happen, allow it to happen.