One time in 2017 when I was teaching teachers how to deliver good sex ed in schools, at the beginning of the course, the headteacher came to me & said ‘We had a meeting and we all agreed that we will say ‘penis’ but none of us are comfortable saying ‘vagina’ in lessons.’
She said ‘I know it’s bad, but we just don’t want to say it, we don’t feel comfortable talking about it and everyone feels the same way’
35 teachers. Wouldn’t say vagina.
This was reflected in masturbation, in which many sex Ed teachers focus on male masturbation but don’t talk to girls about it at all.
We shame them. We erase this from education.
Why aren’t we taught that both males and females can do this?
How important it is for girls and women to go to the toilet after sex because going for a wee can help prevent water infections and UTIs.
I’ve always done this religiously but most girls are not taught how useful and effective this is. Why?
Do not go down on anyone if you have a cold sore on your mouth. Do not accept head from anyone with a cold sore. Cold sores are caused by herpes simplex.
Two of my friends contracted herpes this way and became very ill.
None of us knew.