Actually inclusive solution: Hold the treat bowl out unconditionally. Is the point of giving out treats to make kids happy, or is the point to make them do a dog trick for you first? Think about it.
Actually inclusive solution: Instead of expecting justification, just relax and give out the dang candy. Who died and made you the Halloween police?
Actually inclusive solution: Who cares? It’s dark outside. There’s masks and face paint. How can you even tell? Just give out the dang candy.
Neurotypicals are wild.