Scared to misstep and lose my grasp on the kernel of the question
But let's mind-dump it and see what sticks:
A ramble through the valuation of ideas
- the"lean in" school, that we must conform to the systems around us in order to be accepted
- and another, unnamed, which I will call the "sonder" school
Let's make the system blind to identity and thus allow in diversity
It's not about *you* - it's about the abuser - whether that abuser is an individual, or, much more commonly, a system
There's no "leaning in" to a culture that discriminates blindly, as a waste product of its own construction
In an oversaturated system, such as this network, whilst we value turnover of ideas we are effectively powerless to control their source
We can cut out the bad when we identify, but there's no way to search for the good
The chance of being seen is just that, chance, but a chance that has its own systemic weighting
This, to me, is the fear which motivates most of the abusive behaviour in our modern world
who has voice?