Life can be busy. This means we create mental filters to separate what requires attention from what can be passed over.
That's why completing your social media information is important or including brief direct introductions when you reach out to people. In a few seconds, people need to make a decision about whether to engage you or not.
Also try as much as possible to verify your social media presence e.g having recommendations on your LinkedIn profile, social media verification for dating apps, official websites in your bios. All of these create an extra level of assurance for people who want to engage. 
