First a little about pay rate:
Waitstaff in the US have a minium wage of $2.13 an hour. If they don't meet $7.25 hourly for a week then the employer makes up the difference.
If you get waited on, you are agreeing to exchange your money for that service.
If you don't believe this system is fair & that it should fall to the
Now a bit about tipping in 2019:
The baseline at this point in time for your tip should be 20% for good service. Yes that is up for the 15% of a few years ago, & it's up form 10% of the 90s.
Waitstaff don't live in a different world.
Again, if you disagree, feel free to let management know & get it to go.
If your service was good & under tip or don't tip its
Could this system be done better? Absolutely. We could have a dialog at the beginning of the meal where our expectations of service & the amount we wish to tip are outlined. We could have the hourly wage raised so you can tip less. Though if we did
Please remember that if the human being waiting on you is prompt, courteous, & attentive they DESERVE a 20% tip on anything you consumed at that table.
Also, your friend's tipping
I know it's a rant, & I know plenty of people won't agree with me.
I also know if you disagree you're not someone I care to ever dine out with because I'll end up covering your tip as well as mine out of embarrassment.