The #Brexit side of the debate get to choose their option for the referendum question with one condition:
Their Brexit plan must be achieveable & must not depend on the EU "caving"
If they can't decide on an option, that's their problem
If for example they choose "no deal" its not "no deal because the EU will panic and give us a great deal", it's just "no deal", as it stands, with its consequences spelt out
If its May's deal, its May's deal *including* the backstop
An option the UK can actually implement immediately
But ultimately its a real thing we debate, not an abstract idea of "Leave"
their ongoing cry is "Leave means leave" because, let's be honest, they know actual leave options are all a rubbish. The reality is they *know* that there is no real Brexit plan they can offer which would win a vote
And let's see what the public say
Who could complain about that?
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