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The generalization of the hausa man/hausa woman is appalling. A thread!
Now before you start reading this make sure you have an open mind. The generalization of hausa men/ hausa women is appalling because how can you possibly blame a whole gender or a group of people for the mistakes of a few?? Does that sound fair to you?
If you ask me, both the men and women have their faults. Now what I mean is that there are bad eggs amongst the hausa men and there are bad eggs amongst the hausa women and If you’re a logical person, that shouldn’t make you think the whole gender is bad
Maybe something happened in your family that has left you traumatized, sorry to say this but that doesn’t give you the right to generalize or demonize every single person. We need to get over our sentiments and be more rational
And most of the time people on here use English and try to garnish rubbish! Using big words doesn’t make your argument valid or substantial
There’s something called the bandwagon effect, wanting to be part of something greater than yourself, not that you believe in that particular thing, but because the majority are doing it, you feel the need to do it too.
You attract the same energy you give. There’s a verse in the qur’an that says good women are for good men and bad women are for bad men, I strongly believe in that verse. Now don’t get me wrong there’re some cases in which you’re a good person but god gives you a bad spouse.
But lets face the fact, you can’t be a fuckboy/fuckgirl and think you’d attract a good person. Doesn’t work that way hun.
And let’s be honest, most of the people on here don’t have an experience in marriage or even a serious relationship. They just feel the need to come on here and rant with their spoonful of knowledge. Do better please
Every gender has a fair share of blame and hearing statements like “hausa women are lazy” or “hausa men are abusive” has to be the most biased statement ever. The unaccountability is real and it’s pitiful.
And you know if you don’t like hausa men/hausa women you can jejely move and marry another tribe, no one is going to stop you, you don’t have to come and demonize a particular group of people to make a point. That’s your preference.
And lastly, I am responsible for what I say, I’m not responsible for how you choose to take it. Salaamz (peace)✌🏻
