#Civil and intelligent conversation That involves #criticalthinking skills,self-regulation, #reflection, mutual respect respectful debate, direct conversation are #socialskills all research based Scientific evidence is highly encouraged here. I encourage this on my
Twitter feed to engage in civil #discourse
To #question everything, to be self-aware and insightful,
to allow open #transparent#ooen conversations & discourse free of denial, not listening, talking over others, not letting them finish their sentences, being angry and rageful.
These #behaviors do nothing to advance any cause. #Safeguarders & mediators are very important to the well-being of children miners and disabled adults. when it comes to #childsafety anyone who mocks child safety needs to seriously reflect and/or take A child safety course.
I am not here for infighting, competitions, gossip, Being #smeared climbing over people to get up the latter.
Abusers, name callers, #Manipulators that are not interested in hearing the background of who was upset and why, please #unfollow me. #narcissism
Making up false accusations and false imaginable scenarios & accusations about people for doing their job is disrespectful as is not allowing concerns to be raised, reacting in anger & rage when safeguarding concerns and failures arenraised,false accusers, gossipers, Backstabbers
are not welcome here.
Please unfollow me. These #toxic unhealthy behaviors do nothing to progress this movement forward in any #healthy manner. I am speaking in relation to a series of safeguarding concerns that were raised (are unrelated to me) that have not yet been resolved
for months. This Bucket of ‘unresolved issues’ is filling up quickly and this breeds #resentment and #contempt and ultimately makes things worse. Those who Mock #autistic#neurodivergent people have little respect For those different than them
If you cannot have respect for different neuro types or other disabled persons for that matter, you will be blocked.
Those who who do not understand safeguarding children, safeguard disabled adults or children, will be blocked.
I am a forensic analyst and deal with murders, child abuse, sexual abuse, incest. AGP, transwidows, fetishes, paraphilias and the worst imaginable crimes by parents caregivers partners. I don’t have time for this. My job is to bring justice to those who perpetrate these crimes.
@transwidows deserve respect
We know the red flags, the neglectful parents, their use of words and behaviors. They use the same red flags, clues, small Boundry violations
Their use of words and behaviors. They use the same red flags, clues, small Boundry violations. Learn them.
They most always start out by subtly and in a series of small Boundry violations turn more severe and excessive over time to achieve their violence. They infiltrate unsuspecting groups on social media with the same subtle red flags and ever increasing Boundry violations.
They purposefully look &’hook for these vulnerable children online. I’m not speaking about anybody in particular here, I am speaking about safeguarding &
red flag behaviours, in a movement designed to protect children. All children miners &
disabled adults need safeguarding on SM
Please learn the red flags the signs of predators the ways people infiltrate safeguarding groups, check all individual and group safeguarding policies including individual therapists groups and organisations.
Please do not persist in harassing me or autistic or I will be forced to release recordings of anger & rage as examples of what I am talking about Thank you very much for respecting my boundaries & we do not do not affirm clients as ‘sluts’! @BPSOfficial#boundaries
#Narcissism thread 🧵 15 (more) questions to ask yourself if you are questioning whether someone is a #narcissist 1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
Are they #superior? For e.g. A non lawyer preaching to a lawyer about law. 2. Are they #defensive? Do they seem only interested in trying to prove that they are right & you are wrong, in a defensive mode? 🚩They are #competitive not co-operative. Co-operation is a must #healthy
3. Do they demand #attention from you? For e.g., insisting on having the conversation when it’s convenient for them only &/or use emotional #manipulation to ensure conversation happens on ‘their’ terms? They may not answer the question, go off topic, deflect, defensive, accuse 🚩
How do we know if we are acting responsibly when we are offering ‘information’? What information are we offering? What if that information is on risk for #selfharm & #suicide? As a part of our daily #dutyofcare part of the #safeguarding process?
What about if that information is relied upon when we obtain parental consent for intervention with #children & #adolescents? What if that information isn’t true, is inaccurate, exaggerated, inflated, distorted? #science
1. #Narcissism Thread: What is the quickest way to tell if someone is a #narcissist? 🚩Raise a concern with them. Hands down this works Every. Single. Time. #Narcissists are unable to manage conflict. By conflict, I mean be cooperative & problem solve concerns or disagreements
2. I mean being held accountable or addressing a concern with the genuine interest in resolving it. Resolving issues are important to healthy relationships, #trust boundaries & safety. When issues remain unresolved between #Psychology#abused
3. Couples, family members, groups, organisations, it leads to #resentment, #anger & #contempt. This is why: Say you raise an issue with your partner that’s of a concern to you. Your partner disagrees 🚩 & it doesn’t seem like she is listening to you. 🚩You keep trying to express
Notes from my book: Receiving many messages, DM’s & emails over ‘safeguarding’. I have worked in this industry for 30 years. Safeguarding chapter: #MentalHeath professionals are human & make mistakes, because they are human. They are first & fore-mostly trained in #safeguarding
Their ethos is to ‘Do No Harm’. Most people don’t understand what this means. #Therapists & mental health professionals disagree on many issues. They are divided on what safeguarding means to them #Childsafety & #childprotection have always been fraught by #childsafety challenges
In 2015, I began raising #safeguarding concerns with My regulatory board & the #psychology organisations. These were serious concerns. Over those years, I was ignored, brushed off, #silenced or told it wasn’t a problem. The Australian Senate held an #inquiry into our regulatory
been common to hear about #puberty#Dysphoria
Menstrual problems, #PMDD#PCOS & #endometriosis What is really nice for clinicians is when we see research that backs up our clinical work. In consideration Of #gender distress #dysphoria#ROGD we should be considering this research
Involving children in your paraphilliac transvestism fetishism is, at best, a non-contact sexual offence and a safeguarding issue. Involving children in your tranvestitie fetishism is a safeguarding issue. Need I go on #safeguarding@children
Our very basic response to is that paraphilias emerge when masturbation fantasies become addictive & uncontrolled & therefore do not naturally occur in pre pubescent boys who have yet to masturbate? Why are sexualised behaviours in pre pubescent boys not seen as red flags? #abuse
I don’t understand this. Why are #therapists clinicians and #psychologists not be trained that safeguarding is a part of their job! Why aren’t children being safeguarding by clinicians? It is your job! #childsafety