Gentlemen, that is not a question you ask others.
The answer lies within you.
In this thread, I'll try to give you some perspective on the military service.
Discipline? Patriotism? Combat experience?
If you read my lessons thread and started to drool about the army life, then let me tell you something. It's far from what you're imagining
The life of a soldier SUCKS, this is not a picnic and not an adventure, FAR FROM IT.
If you want to join for purely for selfish reasons, spare yourself the trouble and go do something else.
Nobody is teaching you how to fight just for nothing.
This isn't an after work discipline class.
There's a point for those training, you're being trained so you could effectively protect your and others' lives, that's all there is.
You need to focus on something bigger than you if you wish to endure it.
The length of this phase depends on where you'll serve, the longer it is, the harder it is.
Everybody wants to join the special forces, but only a handful of men really finish the training.
We're talking about more than 2 years of hell.
So, I ended up doing a little longer than 6 months of training,
Yes, they forged me into a soldier and disciplined me, but it came with a price.
I was sent to a war a couple of weeks afterward, an experience that fucked me very hard.
They trained me for a job, and the job well was done. I paid with sweat and blood and pain 4 every single $$ they invested in my training, and some of my friends paid for it with their lives
Death is an overlooked "side effect" of the army
Yes, it's harder when nobody is holding you accountable, but it worths more.
That's what we're doing on #FraternityOfExcellence.
Don't get me wrong, I don't regret joining the military for a second, but looking back, I could've put those 3 years to a better, less painful use
Good luck