The idea that women are automatically “safe” is exactly what creates this “opportunity” for some women to exploit children & monetize their “optics” of “trustworthy” on behalf of predators.
Gender does not predict ethics, integrity, safety.
Images, posts, etc collected, lists made for future smears=silencing tactic
Infiltrate #MeToo organizations =access to victims
who were silenced & intimidated
When non-elite women, WOC
especially Black women
attempt to speak
Marketing on behalf of CEOs call
voice + knowledge
“intimidating”
like was done vs #DrSusanMoore smeared posthumously
Her death anniversary was just before Xmas
Utter inhumanity
cuz remember the 2.3% of #VC funding to women?
+ #womeninSTEM get rejected (snarked at) when we use the SAME language as gets men called innovative disruptive visionary geniuses
I do not meet criteria of #PTSD but *do* have secondary #trauma from doing exams on children sexually assaulted
from my 1-2 decades practicing #pediatrics + #emergencymedicine
+
I learned about assaults on girls at my boarding school later
#BelieveWomen needs to be to assess for a women’s pro-women actions. Mass shootings/violence is predicted by prior domestic violence & words or acts of misogyny.
In both South Asian & American cultures I have seen that it is women who silence women on domestic violence.
The spaces where women excel often are in control or #communication on behalf of CEOs: #compliance, #HR, #professionalism, #marketing. This is not about creating new or being disruptive but on delivering/perpetuating status quo/existing power
I started to get VERY uncomfortable with the overt biases & the double standards.
Most recently this came up with both @CDCgov & @American_Heart guidelines changing to what would protect hospitals from liability rather than frontline #safety
Yes, #GhislaineMaxwell convicted. But Epstein was invited in by his matching counterparts from “elite” institutions. This culture remains in #AcademicTwitter.
This is an #ethics struggle at midcareer. If keep leaving rooms over ethics & integrity, those left in the room continue to control agenda, priorities, outcomes. To have impact at scale, need resources, influence, power =rooms with narcissists & predators insidehighered.com/news/2017/02/2…
The women who enter/stay in such rooms either are willing to accept/tolerate predatory & exploitative behavior & culture around them
or themselves are the same
the higher up a woman goes, the less “safe” other women around her are
system selection bias
How do we improve trust in #science & integrity in #STEM or even simply basic safety when we have a system rewarding narcissism & wooing sexual predators?
This is what targeted racial harassment looks like: nitpicking things like “smiled” or “wore clothes like a celebrity, as a celebrity” or “bought cookware.” It is part of the “gold digger” narrative.
This is common in #healthcare “#professionalism” where there is hazing & bullying by racist &/or classist made up non-rules lacking standards…yet people are called “breaking the rules.”
It’s exactly how bullies operate: double standards, mislabel/smear, exclude, marginalize.
In the U.K., “BAME” includes the formerly colonized, thus making race constructs or power different from U.S. as latter had race-based chattel slavery.
Thing is, those formerly colonized have many who have internalized self hate & racism.
I am trying to understand this response. Yes, #mentalhealth access is very limited & victims of abuse or domestic violence are at risk: ~3 women are killed daily by domestic violence.
Generational trauma can create perpetrators in subsequent generations. #GhislaineMaxwell
As I learned more about disparities & social justice & bias, I began to understand that *the system* is the source of “broken” Black & brown families, criminalizing certain parenting while much worse is *not* identified in privileged families.
When you identify your own abuser as the source of power, strength, status…you become them, seek similar control. This is the cycle of abuse generation to generation.
#Trauma-informed therapy allows you to see abusive need for control =inner emptiness
That said, availability of that needed #trauma therapy is minimal to nil. We have a dearth of #mentalhealth clinicians. The pandemic has worsened that. There are disparities by insurance, state, country, socioeconomic factors, race, gender, etc.
#Medbikini: Teach (male Asian) med students to make fake accounts to cyberstalk trainees’ personal Facebook for: bikini
or “being political” or “religious” (#BLM)
➡️“model minority” pipeline for “shadow faculty” vs Blck @ayshakhoury
He spent his life as a first responder when others needed him. When he had a heart attack on the job, system overwhelm meant no resources available for him.
This is betrayal.
We’ve been asking, pleading, negotiating, screaming for this not to happen.
This 👇🏽👇🏿👇🏻 This is why #BLM exists & why “implicit bias” is not only real but it kills
Why, when you see it, say something, do something
The system changes not by sharing tweets & hashtags but actions & consequences & removal of toxicity from the system
Take #sharethemic initiative. It allowed #Blackexcellence to speak thru #influencer accounts to large followings for a day. I looked at before/after numbers, it did NOT drive any additional traffic to the actual accounts of those voices. Resurfacing this: